Does anyone else find it annoying about incompatible signs?

honestly i think any sign can be good together depends on the individual. im a gemini and my best relationship was with a scorpio man and these two are supposed to hate eachother. i also did the birth chart thing he has alot of scorpio and cancer in his chart and i have alot of fire in mine . fire and water arent supposed to go well either.. and again we had a healthy relationship. we laughed alot, had alot of things in common, hadeverlasting phone convos . i finally met a guy who matched up to me sexually,which made me very happy lol. i find it annoying when zodiac says one sign cant be compatible with another.